In the classic (well, to some, mostly male) television sitcom, Married with Children, for both of the parents, anniversaries were best celebrated separately, as far apart as possible. For normal people, anniversaries are very special holidays that are and should be celebrated together and with friends and family. The accomplishment of achieving each year of marriage is significant and giving unique wedding anniversary gifts is one way of showing how much esteem the happy couple hold in the eyes of those closest to them.Unfortunately, not everyone can afford to spend lavishly or even moderately expensively and in these cases, a collective gift increases purchasing power as well as allows everyone to contribute what they can afford and still get something unique and special. Not everyone makes the same or has the same accumulated wealth so collective gift giving also allows for one special gift to given en masse and that makes everyone feel equally responsible and happy to be contributing. In the event of major income disparities, explaining to those who are well heeled how the collective idea will make for a more special gift for the celebrated.

25th and 50th Anniversary Flutes for the party are always popular – make sure the guests of honor have theirs inscribed with the details of the wedding, anniversary and party. These work good as a starter and are inexpensive. Presenting a larger gift afterwards will only add to the festivities.

Collective gifts can range from the practical to the indulgent. If the couple are trying to fix up their house, a gift certificate to a furniture store for a major purchase will help them out as well as give them something to remember the date by. Day spas, cruises and mini-vacations also will allow them to get away as well as celebrate their good fortune. If they enjoy a hobby or mutual interest, giving them a gift associated with that will always be popular.

The purpose of collective gift giving, even with unique wedding anniversary gifts is so that collectively, friends and family can fete the happy couple with something more special than a lot of less expensive items. Because the budget for gift giving is larger, the purchasing power of the gift is increased dramatically. By pooling resources and everyone contributing what they can afford, the couple can be celebrated and receive a gift worthy of their milestone.